Publications & Research

Eva Mendes, LMHC, NCC, is a nationally recognized expert in working with neurodiverse couples—where one or both partners are on the autism spectrum (diagnosed or self-identified). A trailblazer in the field, Eva has spent over a decade supporting autistic, ADHD, and AuDHD adults, couples, and families, offering practical and compassionate guidance rooted in both clinical expertise and lived experience. Diagnosed with ADHD in adulthood herself, Eva brings an unmatched level of empathy, insight, and cultural sensitivity to her work with twice-exceptional individuals, women, and people from diverse backgrounds.

Marriage with Asperger’s Syndrome: 14 Practical Strategies

Many people are aware that a large percentage of American marriages end in divorce. Marriages (or other intimate relationships) come in all shapes and sizes: They are often disappointing or imperfect, and challenge the patience, understanding, coping and communication skills of both partners. Neurodiverse couples—in which one or both partners have a neurological condition such as an Autism Spectrum Disorder, present a unique set of additional challenges, and may require that a couple use some different tools to address their marital issues.

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